I hope you stop being so hard on yourself for experiencing what is human. It's okay if you're struggling to let go, if you're struggling to accept the circumstances as they are, if you're frustrated and angry at others and yourself for what they have done to you and what you have allowed. It's okay if you've searched for love in the wrong places, if you still feel lost, if you don't know who you are and what you want, if shifting your perspective feels like an insurmountable task. It's okay if shame haunts you for what you've done in the past, if you wish things had turned out differently, if you're still grieving and drowning in sorrow. It's okay if you've lost yourself in the process of giving too much to others, if setting boundaries and communicating feels like a battle. As long as you're trying to even make a small difference in your life, it's okay. I hope you find the strength to be kind to your own heart.