People keep saying, 'Just get over him! But they don't understand what he really meant to me. We never even dated, yet he was only the second guy I've ever truly liked in my whole life. He showed up for me when no one else did, in moments I felt completely alone. And he made me smile again at a time when I had forgotten what smiling even felt like. It wasn't about love stories or big promises it was about how safe he made me feel, how his presence reminded me that I was worth caring for. Sometimes it's not the relationship you miss, it's the way a person makes you feel seen, heard, and alive again. So no, I can't just 'get over him. Because he wasn't just another person he was a reminder that my heart could still feel, even after everything.