a person who values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. they would think about how their actions might affect you. they would be careful with your heart and your trust. they would not lie, hide things, or do something that could slowly push you away. someone who truly values you protects the relationship, even when things are hard. they do not risk losing you just to please their pride or curiosity. they think first before doing something that could hurt you. they do their best to protect what they have with you.