15 things to say when people try to cross your boundaries This isn't up for discussion. What I allowed before, I don't allow anymore. You don't have to agree, but you do have to respect it. I'm saying this because I want peace, not distance. I won't argue about what protects my mental health. My feelings are not dramatic - they are real. I've been clear about my limits, and they stay the same. If my boundaries bother you, that's something you need to look at. I hear you, but I'm still choosing what feels safe for me. Caring about you doesn't mean ignoring myself. I'm not comfortable with this, and that matters. This boundary isn't punishment, it's self-respect. If this can't be respected, I will step back. My peace is not negotiable anymore. I set this boundary because I finally learned my worth.