There is a difference between being loved and being used. One feels like being seen, fully, even on the days you have nothing to give. The other feels like you only matter when you are helpful, when you are quiet, when you make their life easier. A real relationship does not treat your heart like a resource. It does not make you earn kindness by overgiving. The right person will not only notice what you do for them, they will notice you. And once you know what it feels like to be chosen for who you are, you will never again mistake exhaustion for devotion.