I am currently in a long distance relationship with an Ameri... : Hsu Y.

2d ago

I am currently in a long distance relationship with an American-Canadian. Our cultures are different a little bit as I'm an Asian. I had a project competition in my English online class five days ago and I was focusing on that project with my teammates. So I didn't text him for five days. Then, during our long distance relationship, he asked for my n*de video. I said I would send it to him, but I didn't send it to him because I had to focus on the project for five days. Even though I apologized to him and explained the situation, he still got mad at me. Even though I tried to calm him down, he still got mad at me. So I got mad at him for that. Was I overreacting or was he overreacting? Was it my fault from the start or was it his fault?

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Isabella G.1d ago

It’s not so much about fault but rather poor communication. Maybe do a video call and have an honest conversation about what you both need to keep this relationship going…. Make sure you’re both actively listening to your own needs and each others too.

Sophia B.1d ago

Hey, I agree with Matěj, relationships need communication and respect to survive, long distance relationships are especially challenging (I know from experience.) as long as you communicate that you won’t be communicating because of whatever is going on in your life, so they know where they stand, then you’ve done your part.

Matěj R.2d ago

You did good on your end. He should understand that you were really busy and he should support you and appreciate you for seeing your project through. I've never had a long distance relationship but it must be hard to maintain that. But you didn't overreact, I'm on your side Hsu✨!

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