A red flag about me: I think my biggest red flag is that I never really know how to talk about my feelings. When I'm going through something, I tend to stop talking to everyone until I feel okay again. I have a lot of conversations with myself in my head about how I feel, and I explain it well there - but getting it to actually come out of my mouth is so hard. Once I feel okay, Ill start communicating again as if nothing happened. It's not that I'm being distant with you; I just process things better when I'm alone.