someone who truly loves you would've changed their behavior the moment they saw how much it hurt you. real love doesn't look at your pain and keep doing the same thing. real love adjusts, listens, and tries to do better. if someone keeps repeating the same actions even after seeing your pain, then they were never really thinking about you in the first place. the truth is, a person who cares will never let you feel the same hurt twice. they would fix it, not ignore it. and if they didn't, it only means they loved their comfort more than your heart. and that's not the kind of love you should ever settle for.