I read something that shook me: "At first, she loves you the way she wishes someone loved her. Then she loves you the way you teach her to." At the beginning, she's soft. Patient. Overflowing. She gives effort before she sees effort. She forgives before you apologise. She believes before you prove. But slowly. she adjusts. She stops over-giving. Stops explaining. Stops fighting for what feels one-sided. Not because she changed. Because she learned. A woman doesn't become "cold." She becomes calibrated. And once she matches your energy - don't complain about the temperature