how a man treats you during conflict, is more important than any romantic gesture ever. flowers or dates won't matter if he raises his voice at you. sweet words won't matter if he ignores your feelings. love shows in the quiet moments, when he chooses patience instead of anger. when he listens, admits when he's wrong, and cares more about fixing the problem than winning the argument. real love should feel safe, even during arguments. the way someone responds to your tears and your silence, will always reveal the kind of love they truly have for you.