Sometimes you just have to tell people how they're making you feel - simple as that. Be it friends, family, or anyone else, if their behavior is hurting you, speak up. You don't have to scream or create drama - calm, direct honesty does the job. Tell them that their so-called "fun" stopped being fun for you a long time ago. Let them know you're done pretending it doesn't bother you just to keep peace. And when they act all shocked or defensive, smile — that's guilt talking, not concern. You can't fix people with stubborn mindsets; they'll twist your words anyway. So take a step back, protect your peace, and stop waiting for them to grow up. At the end of the day, it's not about making them comfortable - it's about choosing you.