How do you know if in a relationship, something is an actual difference, point of contention or conflict vs just a misunderstanding? In my opinion & experience, god and higher power intervene when it’s a misunderstanding pretty soon. The truth wins in the end, the energy pervades and clears all the untruths in any relationship or environment. The right people who are meant to get along, unite, & those who are misaligned, part. And, if the untruths linger for too long, its probably for a reason. It’s rare, & perhaps a stroke of luck where someone has to pay for their negative past karma and they do so by having to bear this untruth about their actions. So have faith that the misunderstandings in your relationships will resolve at the right time and you will be free from any untruths or false assumptions that you might be carrying right now. The higher power facilitates communication, clarity and conflict resolution for those whom it wants to keep tied and together.