When toxic family doesn’t understand that I want one bell pepper so I went to get it and like don’t berate me for it but they do. Going to GP tmrw with them, sure they got performance ready everything from smiles to gift, so I’m choosing to be silent. Then they know me by “that one silent kind” but who gives (u know what)? Not me. I’m the endurer of all things, and I don’t participate in theatrics. Both get their own sacrificing aka people don’t even know you, but better than appeasing them 24/7. HERE FOR THE BELL PEPPER HANDS UP!! We ain’t gonna give it up. 🫑