WHEN YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER Choose someone emotionally intelligent-someone who knows when to listen and when to speak. Someone who can reassure you when you don't know what to do, someone who shows up through both words and actions. Choose a partner who makes you feel supported, loved, and cared for. Someone who can be there through ups and downs, who understands your silence, your feelings, and your sudden changes of mood. Choose a partner who can accept and love you through it all, because that's the kind of love you deserve.