PSYCHOLOGY SAYS: 1. Don't overshare. Privacy is power. People can't ruin what they don't know. 2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does. 3. When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on solution, you will see more opportunities. 4. Who gossips to you, will gossip about you. 5. Lack of communication can kill a great relationship. 6. The less you care, the happier you will be.