What's a healthy relationship? It's when you both start from the same place - emotionally, mentally, and energetically. Not one person who's already where they wanted to be, and the other still "full of potential." You're looking for a partner, not a project. Love isn't mentorship. Support isn't supervision. It's built on emotional stability, consistency, and mutual respect — not chaos, guessing games, or silent treatments. A relationship is about growing together, not one person dragging the other along. It's about balance — giving, receiving, understanding, and evolving side by side. Depending on your partner to raise you isn't love, it's parenting. Partnership means equality — not guidance, not saving, and definitely not sacrifice. And if someone needs to be "xed" before they can love right, they're not ready for a relationship.